Paying for care
What Happens If You Need a Nursing Home and Have No Savings
If your parent needs long-term nursing home care and has no savings, the short answer is this: Medicare will not pay for it, and Medicaid almost certainly will. Long-term custodial care, help with bathing, dressing, mea...
September 30, 2026 ยท 15 min read
If your parent needs long-term nursing home care and has no savings, the short answer is this: Medicare will not pay for it, and Medicaid almost certainly will. Long-term custodial care, help with bathing, dressing, meals, and supervision, is not a Medicare benefit under any circumstance. Medicaid is the payer for most nursing home residents in the country, and it is designed for exactly the situation you are in.
What separates families who get this handled in a few weeks from families who lose months and tens of thousands of dollars is not luck. It is knowing three or four rules that facilities do not volunteer, and applying in the right order.
Medicare will not pay, and that is not a loophole you can find
Start with the rule that surprises people most. Medicare does not cover long-term nursing home care. Not for the very poor, not for the very sick, not with a doctor's note. Medicare Part A covers up to 100 days of skilled nursing care after a qualifying hospital stay, and only while the person still needs skilled care, nursing or therapy that has to be delivered by a licensed professional. The day the need shifts from skilled to custodial, Medicare stops paying. That is by design, not by error.
Say a resident is admitted to a nursing home after a hip fracture. Medicare covers the rehab portion, physical therapy, skilled nursing, wound checks, for as long as those services are medically necessary. Once the person can walk with a walker and manage their own medications, they have crossed into custodial care. Medicare's coverage ends. The bill, which can run into the hundreds of dollars a day, becomes the family's problem unless another payer steps in.
This is the point where many families make their first expensive mistake: they assume there will be a gap program, a waiver, or a Medicare Advantage plan that quietly covers the difference. There is not. Any plan that advertises "nursing home coverage" is almost always covering the skilled portion only, with the same 100-day structure underneath.
If you want the full breakdown of how the payers stack up, our guide on who pays for nursing home care walks through it. For now, internalize the headline: no savings plus ongoing care needs equals Medicaid, not Medicare.
Why having no savings is often the fastest path to coverage
Medicaid nursing home eligibility is income- and asset-limited by design. That means the program is built for people with few resources. If your parent genuinely has no savings, no pension of significance, and minimal income, they are not an edge case scrambling for an exception. They are the population the program was written for.
That is worth saying plainly because many families spend weeks assuming they will be rejected. They will not be rejected for being poor. Medicaid is the safety net, and the financial test is the front door.
The complication is not whether your parent qualifies on finances. It is the timing, the paperwork, and the fact that a facility will not wait for the state to finish processing. Medicaid approval is not instant. Depending on the state, it can take weeks or longer, and applications get kicked back for missing documents constantly. That gap, between the day your parent needs care and the day Medicaid starts paying, is where families get pressured into writing checks they did not have to write.
Our Medicaid by state pages cover the specific thresholds and how each state calculates them. The exact numbers change, and they vary enormously by state, so check your state's current figures rather than relying on what a friend's family went through in a different state.
The first three phone calls, in order
Do these in sequence. Doing them out of order is how families end up paying privately for months they did not need to.
- Call your state Medicaid agency and start the application. Do this as soon as the need for long-term care is clear, even before a bed is chosen. The clock on processing does not start until you file. Ask what documents they require, bank statements, tax returns, proof of identity, the deed or lease, and get the list in writing if you can.
- Ask each facility you are considering whether they accept Medicaid, and at what point. There is a real difference between a facility that accepts Medicaid from day one and one that wants a period of private pay first. Ask the question directly: "Will you admit a Medicaid-pending resident, or do you require private pay first?" Get the answer before you tour.
- Ask your Area Agency on Aging for case management. This is a free service. A case manager can help you assemble the Medicaid application, understand your state's process, and identify programs you have not heard of. It costs nothing and it is staffed by people who do this daily.
Notice what is not on that list: signing anything at a facility. Do not sign an admission agreement until you have read it for the two clauses covered below.
The two federal protections facilities routinely get wrong
These are the rules that matter most, and they are the ones families most often do not know exist.
A facility cannot discharge a resident just for switching to Medicaid
If a federally certified nursing home accepts Medicaid, it cannot discharge a resident solely because that resident has converted from private pay to Medicaid after admission. This protects the person who paid privately for a few months and then qualified for Medicaid. The facility took them in, they are a resident, and the payer changing is not grounds for eviction.
This matters because the fear of being "kicked out" is one of the main reasons families keep paying privately long after the money is gone. That fear is largely unfounded in a facility that takes Medicaid. If a facility is pressuring you with discharge threats over a payer change, that is a signal about the facility, and it is worth documenting in writing.
A facility cannot require you to personally guarantee payment
A federally certified nursing home cannot require a third party, an adult child, a spouse, a friend, to personally guarantee payment as a condition of admission. You are not required to sign your own finances over to secure your parent a bed. This is a specific federal protection, and it is commonly violated, sometimes because staff do not know the rule and sometimes because the pressure works.
The practical version: you may sign as the resident's representative, meaning you are helping them apply for benefits and manage their affairs. You should not sign as a financial guarantor, meaning you are personally on the hook if Medicaid does not pay. Those are different signatures, and they are often placed in the same stack of paperwork. Read every page before you sign, and if a line makes you responsible for the bill, ask them to strike it or explain why it is there.
Our guide on residents' rights covers the wider set of protections, including the discharge and admission rules.
What "Medicaid-pending" actually looks like in practice
Here is the scenario that plays out constantly. A parent is hospitalized, then discharged to a nursing home for rehab. Medicare covers the first stretch. The family is told the parent will need long-term placement. They have no savings. They apply for Medicaid, but the state takes weeks. The facility's business office hands them a private-pay rate sheet and asks for a deposit.
What the family should know: a facility cannot lawfully require the family to privately pay in the interim as a condition of admission if the person is Medicaid-eligible and applying. But many facilities prefer or require a period of private pay before Medicaid eligibility is confirmed, and some will simply say no to a Medicaid-pending admission. That is their business decision, and it is legal for them to have that policy, what is not legal is forcing a family member to sign as guarantor to get around it.
So the realistic move is not to fight a facility into admitting your parent. It is to find the facilities that will admit on Medicaid or Medicaid-pending, and there are far more of them than most families assume. Our data covers 14,156 facilities certified to accept Medicaid, out of 14,696 Medicare-certified homes. That is the overwhelming majority. The question is not whether Medicaid-accepting facilities exist. It is which ones in your area are good, and which ones have a bed today.
That is where the grading matters. You can search all nursing homes and filter to the ones near you, then look at how each one scores. A facility that takes Medicaid is not automatically a facility you want your parent in, and the data will tell you which is which.
What to look at before you commit to a facility
When money is tight, the temptation is to take the first bed that accepts Medicaid. That is understandable and sometimes necessary. But there are a few numbers that separate a facility that will care for your parent well from one that will not, and they are public.
Staffing is the one that matters most for day-to-day care. National average total nurse staffing is 3.86 hours per resident per day, and the national average for registered nurse staffing is 0.69 hours. Weekend staffing averages 3.42 hours, which is lower than weekdays, a real gap if your parent needs help on a Saturday. Our guide on what staffing numbers mean explains how to read them without a background in the field.
Inspection history is the other. Our database holds 419,479 health-inspection citations, and 22,914 of them were scored at actual harm or immediate jeopardy. That is the top of the severity scale. You can pull a facility's inspection record and read it, and our guide on how to read a nursing home inspection report shows you what to look for.
Two flags worth knowing about specifically. 1,428 facilities currently carry a CMS abuse icon. 526 are in, or candidates for, the Special Focus Facility programme, the group CMS identifies as the most persistently troubled. Checking a facility against the watchlist of flagged homes takes a minute and can save you a decision you cannot easily undo.
Other resources that cost nothing
Medicaid is the main answer, but it is not the only one. Depending on your parent's situation, one of these may fit better or fill a gap.
- PACE, the Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly. For people who qualify and would rather stay in the community, PACE provides coordinated medical and support services with the goal of keeping them out of a nursing home. It is not available everywhere, and eligibility rules apply, but for the right person it is a genuinely different option rather than a smaller version of the same one.
- Area Agency on Aging case management. Free. They help with applications, benefits, and local programs. Call them early, not as a last resort.
- Veterans Affairs benefits. Eligible veterans and some surviving spouses may qualify for VA programs that help with long-term care costs. The rules are specific and worth checking even if you assume your parent does not qualify. We cover the VA options separately.
- Home health and hospice. If your parent's needs can be met at home, home health agencies and hospice providers are separate systems with their own coverage rules. Our pages on home health agencies and hospice providers cover both.
None of these replace Medicaid for someone who needs full-time custodial care in a facility. But they matter at the margins, and the margins are where families either stretch a little further at home or end up in a facility a year earlier than they needed to.
The two scams that target families in exactly this position
People with no savings and a parent who needs care are a specific target, because they are scared and because they have been told, correctly, that the system is complicated. Two things come at them.
Paid "Medicaid planning" that promises to hide assets
There is legitimate elder law work, and there is a version of it that promises to move money around so the state cannot see it. The second version runs straight into the look-back rules. If assets were transferred or given away within the look-back period before applying, Medicaid can impose a penalty period of ineligibility, meaning the very maneuver that was supposed to speed things up delays coverage instead. You pay a fee, and then you wait longer, and the money is already gone.
If your parent truly has no savings, there is nothing to hide and no reason to pay anyone to hide it. Be wary of anyone who leads with asset protection before they have even looked at whether your parent qualifies on plain financial grounds.
Facilities pressuring a family member to sign as guarantor
This one is quieter. It comes as a stack of admission paperwork and a business office staffer saying "we just need a signature here." The signature makes you personally responsible for the bill. It is the single most expensive thing a well-meaning adult child can do in this process, because it converts a problem the system is designed to solve into a personal debt.
The protection exists. It is federal. It is not a negotiation. If a facility will not admit your parent without your guarantee, that is information about the facility, and you have 14,156 Medicaid-certified alternatives nationwide to look at instead.
Facilities that take Medicaid are not all the same facility
There is a version of this advice that stops at "find a Medicaid bed." That is not enough. The facilities that accept Medicaid vary enormously in quality, and the ones with the most open beds are often the ones with the worst records. That is not cynicism. It is what the data shows.
For-profit facilities make up the majority of the country's supply, 10,882 for-profit against 2,869 non-profit, and 10,119 facilities belong to a named chain. Chain ownership is not automatically bad, but it does mean decisions about staffing and admissions are made somewhere other than the building. Our ownership tracker lets you see who owns a facility before you commit, and our guide on who owns nursing homes explains why it matters.
Staff turnover is the number that predicts the experience your parent will have more than almost anything else, and the national average sits at 46%. High turnover means your parent is cared for by a rotating cast of people who do not know their preferences, their history, or their baseline. When you tour, ask how long the director of nursing has been there and how many CNAs have been on the unit for more than a year.
You are not choosing between a good facility and a bad one. You are choosing between facilities with different records, and the records are public. Use them. Compare the two or three you are considering side by side with our comparison tool, and start from the best-graded homes in your area to see what good looks like before you settle for what is available.
Questions to ask before you sign anything
Bring this list to every tour and every meeting with a business office. Write the answers down. If someone will not answer in writing, that is an answer.
- Does this facility accept Medicaid, and will you admit a resident who is Medicaid-pending?
- Do you require a period of private pay before Medicaid is confirmed? If so, how long?
- Will you ask me to sign as a financial guarantor? (The correct answer is no.)
- What happens to my parent's residency if their payer changes from private pay to Medicaid?
- What is the current total nurse staffing hours per resident per day, and how does it compare to the national average of 3.86?
- What is registered nurse staffing, and is an RN on site on weekends?
- What is your staff turnover rate, and how long has the director of nursing been here?
- Can I see the most recent inspection report? (You can also pull it yourself.)
- Is this facility on the CMS abuse icon list or in the Special Focus Facility programme?
- Who is the owner, and how many other facilities do they operate?
- What is the discharge policy, and under what circumstances can a resident be asked to leave?
- If we apply for Medicaid and it takes longer than expected, what happens to my parent's bed?
That last question matters more than it looks. A facility that will hold a bed through a slow Medicaid determination is a facility that has done this before. One that will not is telling you something about how the next few years will go.
The mistake that costs families the most
The most common mistake is not choosing the wrong facility. It is signing the admission paperwork without reading it, and specifically without noticing the guarantor clause. Families do this because they are exhausted, because the hospital is discharging tomorrow, because the business office is friendly and the paperwork is thick and everyone is being very kind. Then Medicaid takes six weeks longer than expected, and the facility sends a bill to the adult child, who signed a page they did not read, for the private-pay rate during the gap.
That bill can run into the thousands of dollars, and it is now a personal debt, not a facility problem. It does not go away because the parent qualified for Medicaid. It does not get reduced because the family had no money. It is the adult child's obligation, on paper, with a signature.
The second most common mistake is not applying for Medicaid early enough. Families wait until the money is nearly gone, or until a facility tells them to apply, or until they have picked a home. Every week of delay is a week of private pay if the facility requires it, or a week of uncertainty if it does not. The application does not require a facility choice. It requires documents. Start it while you are still touring.
The third is paying someone to "protect" assets that do not exist. If your parent has no savings, the financial test is the easy part. Do not let anyone sell you a solution to a problem you do not have.
The bottom line
If your parent needs long-term nursing home care and has no savings, Medicaid is the answer, and your job is to start the application before you need it and to read every page before you sign it. Medicare will not help with custodial care, and no amount of documentation or appeal will change that. What you can control is the sequence: apply early, ask every facility directly about its Medicaid admission policy, refuse to sign as a guarantor, and choose from the facilities that accept Medicaid based on their actual staffing and inspection record rather than on which one has a bed tonight. The system is not generous, but it is not as closed as it looks, and the families who get through it cleanly are the ones who knew the four or five rules before anyone handed them a pen.
Where these figures come from
Every number in this article that describes American nursing homes comes from the CMS Provider Data Catalog, the same public federal files behind Medicare's Care Compare. You can see exactly which datasets we use, and how current they are, on our data sources page. Nothing here is medical, legal or financial advice, rules differ by state and change over time, so verify anything that affects a decision with the facility, your state survey agency, your Long-Term Care Ombudsman, or a qualified professional.